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pelavarre (@pelavarre) · 11/2022 · Tröts: 1.920 · Folger: 61
Di 06.08.2024 19:31
> > We each show up at work with quirks. We each carry in our own emotional baggage. But people online dream up new brief clear compelling word pictures for how it feels to come across as different, by one measure or another
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> > People "on the spectrum" tell us we often slap back at their innocence.
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> > So long as I speak my emotions only without words, so long as they then fail to hear me well, they can easily fool themselves with false hopes of my good strong moral character. They can mistakenly find in me far more curiosity, patience, imagination, and collegiality than I ever meant to emote
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> > As they talk on and on, I'm feeling bored, then impatient, then baffled, and then dissed. We're in the lose/lose already and all the while they have no idea
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> > What matters then is how well I regulate my own emotions. Our work goes well only if I can avoid taking offence where none was intended, if I can speak my own needs out loud in words. Do I meet their need by me showing up and giving them a chance to accommodate my needs reasonably? Or not
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